the past couple of days that my boyfriend and i have gone to have sex, it hurts me really bad when he goes all the way in. the only things i can think of are A) too many times or B) i had my period
but those factors don't make sense to me because they have never affected it before...does anyone know why it hurt, or have had it happen to them before? >
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2 days ago
i know it's not an STD..100% sure.
another thought...maybe it's too big?
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Well, having had boyfriends with big ones and little ones, I know that when the man goes too far in, he can hit your cervix and it HURTS! I've had this happen on accident too many times! It instantly kills the mood! BY the way, this doesn't sound abnormal at all! I keep seeing women on here with the same complaint, if the man goes too far in, it hurts! *shocking* hehe
__The important part__: in my experience, if he is hurting you when he goes to far in, he is hitting your cervix, which is the entryway into your uterus. He shouldn't be hitting that, and I would suggest using positions such as you straddling him, to keep him from penetrating so deeply. If you are not ovulating (like when you are on your period, or around your period), your cervix is closer to the opening of your v**ina and hard, and it will hurt more when he hits it. When you are ovulating (about 14 days after the start of your period), the cervix is high and soft and it won't hurt so much, but you'll also be fertile unless on the pill.
The thing is, I think to the guys, it feels good to hit the cervix, because it is hitting the tip of his p**is which is the most sensitive part. You need to be your advocate and use positions that you don't hit your cervix in. The more aroused you are as well, the more your v**ina will stretch out. You'll work it out! Good luck and hope this helps! |
