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is it rioght to live a lie to stop ppl from asking? |
when i am at school, ppl used to ask if i was ok and i'd say yes, no matter how much i wanted to scream no... now i ask fine all the time just so they wont ask... but by not lying, am i lying? >
Best answer:
4 weeks ago
i realised i misspelt the word right but it was too late to change it... give me a brake i've been awake for 5 days...
Best answer:
Somedays we as human beings just feel a bit down... goodness knows what causes it.. we just do.. (It might be the cycles of the moon, the time of the month, itmight be a lot of things...)
When we feel down we tend to wear that on our face and people will say.. "What's wrong with you?" .... and mostly they don't really care what ails you they are asking becuase they have a habit of asking and sometimes they just have a need to know everything about everyone....In this circumstance when people say... "How are you?" or "What's the matter?" it is perfectly okay to lie and say... "I am well." "I am fine."
If you are feeling very down and have lots of sad or/and depressing thoughts, feelings, and ideas and can't seem to see your way clear then it is still okay to tell others who are not really asking because they care a lie..... but you do need to find someone to tell the truth to....
Very often especially during school years we can experience all kinds of thoughts and feelings that if left unexpressed can build up to become problems in themselves... so finding one or two people that you can open up to is helpful... expressing yourself stops things from festering...
If you contemplate ideas of hurting yourself or killing yourself... then please do talk to your parents or your school counsellor... (Be patient with school counsellors they often look after more than one school and have hundreds of kids to care about at each school but mostly they DO care so it is worth waiting for an appointment)....Alternatively if your neighbourhood has a health centre or a youth centre or a neighbourhood centre then you can go there and make an appointment to see someone... or you can make an appointment to see your doctor... |
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