my damn boyfriend told me he went to the doctor and the doctor said he has it (Chlamydia) so calls me calmly saying he must of had it for years and didn't know it. he siad that it "comes and goes" ,Yes I cursed him out. Cuz that sh!* comes and stays..RIGHT? - i know he is trying to play me
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The symptoms appear pretty quickly- he'd know if he had it for 'years'. Talk to a gyno about it. If he'd had it for years, he would have been very sick by the time be was diganosed. Even if the infection hadn't spread to other parts of his body, he would have been swollen, had serious trouble urinating, and have some serious leakage going on. He definately would have noticed something was wrong, and you probally would've noticed too! What prompted him to go get tested after dealing with it 'on and off' for years? Besides that, I'm sure he's been on antibiotics some time in the past few years- most people have. That would've taken care of the infection. I sincerely doubt he's had it for years. Your dealing with a cheater and a liar, girl. It is possible that he's had it for months- how long have you been dating? could he have gotten it from an ex without cheating? But if you've been dating for any lenghth of time... he cheated, and with someone dirty. Unless you want more stds from him- incurable ones!- leave him. At the very least, demand he get tested for the whole range of stds, and ask to see the results on paper. Until you see a clean bill of health, don't go near him. Men like that carry herpes and HIV. |
