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How do you tell someone you love and want to be with... that you have genital He |
Has anyone gone through this and not be thought of as an absolute dirtbag by the one they love?? I Know some things about herpes but not enough to know if I will ever have a loving relationship again. I'm so depressed and feel sick to my stomach about being alone the rest of my life. The person that gave this to me knew they had it and never thought to tell me. They said that they were to ashamed. I don't want to do that to the one i'm with. What can I tell him so that he might be open to the possibility of working this out?? Someone help me please. . . I'm so scared.
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Let me start by saying you are not alone. Actually statistically 3 out of 5 women have genital herpes. It is probably one of the most common STD's. With that said you need to tell whoever that you do have it. Yes its embarressing, yes its hard but you need to do the right thing so they can decide for themselves what the best thing to do is. Maybe you can get some information online or some brochures and tell the person you love while you have the information there with you. Tell him in person and be honest. It is not your fault the person who gave it to you didn't tell you. It was a mistake. Many people cannot accept it but believe me there are many people who can. My advice is be honest and dont lie, in the end it will all work out.
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